1You have been part of a team in which everyone worked hard, except for you (you had good reasons for this). What is your main worry?
The final outcome
That other people will think poorly of you
That you didn't contribute enough
Other
2You have reserved a table at a restaurant. Something comes up at the last minute that means you can’t go, but you don’t cancel your booking. What are you thinking?
I'm not worried, it happens
I should've called, now they lost money
I'm going to have to eat there some other time to make up for it
I call and apologize the next day
3How do you feel when you are happy, but everyone around you seems depressed?
You continue to be happy
You feel ashamed for being happy
You feel guilty and hide your mood
Other
4How would you react if you forgot a good friend's birthday?
I would feel overwhelmed with guilt
Mistakes happen it's okay
I would apologize profusely
I would make it up to them tenfold
Other
5Do you feel as if you make more mistakes than most people?
Definitely
Sometimes
Everyone makes mistakes
Not at all
6Do you fret over things you've said or done long after the fact?
Yes I obsess over the details
Nah live and let go
I sometimes feel nauseous thinking about my past transgressions
It keeps me up at night
7You've upset someone. What's your approach to resolving things?
I would feel overwhelmed and ignore the problem
I would be on the defense
I would listen and then react
8Which character from Friends are you most like?
Monica
Rachel
Phoebe
Ross
Chandler
Joey
9Do you believe that your flaws exceed your strengths?
Not a chance
I have moments
I believe my strengths exceed my flaws
10How many things do you want to change about yourself?